----- Original Message ----- From: sbshai - sbshai@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: Answers You've Always Been Afraid To Give Here are two more frequently encountered scenarios regarding the tziun shnati for Barry's "maybe" article: First case Student: Why should I continue coming to your class if I can do better on the Bagrut without the tziun shnati you'll probably give me? I can do the externi and have more success! Teacher: You're absolutely right, but don't quote me! Advantage of this response: It's got a refreshingly honest appeal that the student is totally unprepared for. Watch his/her eyebrows as you say this with a smile. (The smile is important because it shows you're not scared to be quoted, so hopefully you won't be!) Disclaimer: Do this at your own risk, depending on your principal's sense of humor! (First you must determine exactly whose 'pal' he/she is.) Second scenario Student: You said at the beginning of the year that we'll get credit for attendance when you give the tziun shnati, but you must have forgotten about my almost perfect record. Teacher: I must remind you that I emphasized a triple component approach to the question of attendance: you have to be present in mind, body and soul in order for attendance to count. I'm afraid that in your case the first factor was mostly absent. Student: That's a terrible thing to say! Teacher: Can you deny that you slept soundly through the majority of lessons, and on those occasions when someone succeeded in waking you up, you promptly turned your other cheek to the desk? Student: Can't I get some credit for the body and soul part? Dear colleagues, I leave this one for you to answer. Thanks for stirring up nostalgic memories, Barry! ----------------------------------------------- ** Etni homepage - http://www.etni.org or - http://www.etni.org.il ** ** for help - ask@xxxxxxxx ** ** to post to this list - etni@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ** -----------------------------------------------