----- Original Message ----- From: sbshai - sbshai@xxxxxxxxxxxxx Subject: Honesty is the best policy vs. brutal honesty Dear ETNI readers, As implied in my previous message (and as I have said directly several times), there are MANY teachers who feel it is unconscionable for us to follow any directives that compromise honesty; otherwise, we might as well condone plagiarism on the projects and save ourselves the trouble of reading every word (not just the highlighted sections!) of every source included with the reports. I have no wish to enter the current controversy about honesty on ETNI, but I would like my colleagues to consider this question: Isn't it also immoderate to fling accusations at each other on a public forum? If one's sense of righteousness is offended by what someone else has said, wouldn't it be more appropriate to first contact that person via his/her private e-mail? As for the need to publicly express one's intolerance for whatever was written, isn't it important to find a gracious way to extend the benefit of the doubt -- even if the perceived fault is considered unforgivable? It can be so easy to talk down to each other, but if we are truly in the right, it will be clear enough to all. That said, isn't it possible that the recent suggestion not to penalize students whose teachers followed Irgun sanctions against projects (however misguided), was actually a frank attempt to deal with this difficult situation? If this was viewed as unacceptable, then the idea -- not the person -- could have been attacked. Indeed, we are all Ministry employees, and most of us try to faithfully follow the MOE's dictates, but that does not mean that we do not have the right to turn to our unions for protection when we find some of those commands to be untenable. Moreover, for the sake of our students, we must keep the lines of communication open if we want to bridge the gaps between us . In fact, as it became clear during the recent HOTS debate, one of the greatest teacher grievances was that the Inspectorate did not seem to be willing to consider valid concerns and/or objections about the program from the teachers in the field. So if we can learn the importance of striving for mutual respect for differing opinions, we will all truly have "come of age"! Affably, Batya ----------------------------------------------- ** The ETNI Rag ** http://www.etni.org/etnirag/ Much more than just a journal ** Etni homepage - http://www.etni.org or - http://www.etni.org.il ** ** for help - ask@xxxxxxxx ** ** to post to this list - etni@xxxxxxxxxxxxx ** -----------------------------------------------